My hair is thinning and graying quite a bit, but that doesn’t really bother me. My beard doesn’t come in all that fully, but it is adequate I suppose. The thing that really bugs me about my head/facial hair? My beard and hair do not connect, so I can’t grow decent sideburns. It’s fine when my hair is long, but if my hair is short my sideburns are disconnected islands of facial hair. In this picture I have long hair and a full beard, so it’s not a big pain at the moment.
I’m sure it’s not as evident to the most casual observer as it is to me, and my wife doesn’t mind at all; in fact, she loves when I have “sideburns”. Alas, it is a source of great pain and inner turmoil.